Throughout my multi-national career, I have faced several work frustrations, a common factor in any professional career. These might be related to processes, the direct manager, peers, workload, or the feeling that no one listens to or recognizes your efforts.
Work frustration can result from miscommunication, challenging projects, or unmet expectations. It can happen in any setting and under any circumstances. It can drain your energy and motivation and impact your performance.
5 Tips to Manage Work Frustration
What if you could turn these work frustrations into your superpower and use them to your advantage? This would give you the drive to improve and change perspectives for growth.
Let’s dive into 5 strategies that might help you to manage work frustration.
1. Identify the reasons for your work frustrations
Before you shift your work frustration into motivation, you need to know what creates that frustration. The first step is always to understand where you stand and what exactly creates the feeling of frustration. Some samples might be like this:
- Feeling undervalued
- Lack of resources
- Unmet expectations
- Unclear goals and responsibilities
- Workload
The above are only a few samples. Be bold with yourself. Write it down and see the pattern that evolves from your writing.
Concrete action points:
- Ask for a meeting with your manager and have an open conversation aboutputting yourself as the one who needs guidance.
- If it is workload, check out what you can delegate; you can shift for later and prioritize. In any case, you need to seek a meeting with your manager, be transparent, and be prepared to articulate your struggles.
- Find your personal goal and see whatever you are dealing with as an opportunity to learn and grow.
2. Set Clear and Achievable Goals
Work frustration might come from feeling aimless or without a clear step-by-stepguide. Writing down your goals can clarify in black and white the next steps you can take to manage any task. Setting micro goals is the key. Let’s face it: You cannot do everything simultaneously, so you need to do one after the other. For any action or matter that is bothering you.
- If you are frustrated with slow-moving career progression, plan for a meeting with your manager or get the certifications you need; find a mentor or career coach to level up your skills and polish your personal branding.
- If you struggle with workload, set yourself one micro goal for completion each day. This way, you will feel you are approaching your tasks with each step.
Remember, from nothing comes nothing. Action yields results, whether seeking a meeting or shifting your priorities. Any step and thought counts to become resourceful.
3. Seek Support and Collaboration
You don’t need to face work frustrations alone. Once you share, the frustration becomes less, and you might hear great stories you can learn from and duplicate. Moreover, the people you tell can give you a fresh perspective and ask open questions that might challenge your beliefs.
- The fundamental question is: Is it true? How true is it?
- Share your challenges with a trusted person. It can be someone from outside your working habitat. Even better, they don’t have any bias against anyone or the organization.
- Hold a brainstorming session with peers and employees. Discuss the issue and ask for solutions. Collaboration is key. You don’t need to solve everything on your own.
- Seek support in any event setting or conference. You never know who can give you that great tip that might spark ideas and solutions
4. Reframe Your Work Frustration
Often, frustration comes from seeing only obstacles and roadblocks. Let’s shift our mindset and beliefs about this. See them as your friends, your path to pushing your career, and your growth opportunity. With this positive outlook, your motivation will increase, and you will tackle them skilfully.
- What can I learn from this situation?
- What needs changing?
- How can I improve my skills?
5. Celebrate and be compassionate with yourself
A very important aspect is that we always forget about ourselves—to celebrate, to be proud of that courageous step we took, about the task we addressed. It’s easy to focus on what is going wrong rather than what is going right.
Seeing and being aware of these small wins will boost your morale and your motivation.
- Once you completed one of your tasks and goals – appreciate that effort. Talk to yourself and have a coffee, tea, or whatever your soul needs.
- Did you receive a compliment or recognition? Say thank you and be proud of yourself.
Remember, you do your best, and what counts is the effort and passion you bring to the table. It is not only about meeting your objectives that counts; the path to that achievement also counts.
Conclusion:
Work frustration does not need to be a stumbling block. It can be an excellent opportunity to showcase your leadership and innovative mindset. It can be your stepping stone towards success in your career journey. Choosing some of the above steps will change the work frustration to become your motivation booster.
Next time you face such work frustration, take a step back, reflect, ask yourself some questions first, ask for support and a new perspective, and learn.
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